We had a similar problem a while back.

g_friends_trusted was false - changing it to true seemed to solve the  
problem (as suggested by chrisP)

Final Settings:
g_friends_always - True
g_friends_only - True
g_friends_trusted - True

Hope this helps,

Paul

On Oct 20, 2010, at 10:49 PM, SurgeMail Support wrote:

> Hello,
>
> Are you sure you are using smtp auth when sending?
>
> Regards,
> Stuart
>
> On 21/10/2010 5:15 p.m., surgemailHIDDEN@etwinsite.com wrote:
>> Hello,
>> We are using Surgemail version 3.8k4-4 and the feature that adds  
>> email addresses to your friends list was working properly until 6  
>> months ago. We checked everything and the setup looks correct but,  
>> still, no addresses are being added to the list when an email is  
>> sent out.
>> We have unchecked the selection box, saved and then reselected the  
>> option, saved but nothing changes.
>> Does anybody had the same issue? If so, how to fix it?
>> Thank you in advance.
>> Martins
>
>